Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex. Show all posts

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Players and "Players"

What is the difference between a Player and a "Player"? Aren't all players bastards due to the simple fact that they take pleasure in 'playing' women?

Not necessarily.

A real Player is just looking to have fun while maintaining anonymity - this Player will be able to go about daily life without the stigma of being a 'player'. They aren't looking to hurt women, they are simply looking for a good time - usually until they find a woman they love. Evidently that's the agenda of the Player, to have fun until they've found someone to settle down with.

Now that's the real Player.

The other type of man you may run into is a "Player", the difference between the two types is that one is proud to use women, the other enjoys having consentual fun with women without bragging.

"Players" are the assholes and bastards that you will encounter - they are proud to play women and show that fact off to anyone who will listen.

Beware of the self-proclaimed players, but if you're just looking to have fun, then the smooth, also looking for a good time man might just be for you.


In any case, be safe and always have fun :)



J.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Papaya anyone?

Right, so I'm bored and just declined to work on homework... So let's see, what can I talk about?

Papaya. Tomato. Animal.

Innocent enough words, right?

Wrong.


As I was informed last night, these are all terms used to describe the vagina.

I'm sure most women would agree that they assume men are quite vulgar when it comes to sexually related subjects. I'm one of them. Last night I found out just how..underestimating I have been all these years. Men are very explicit and willing to share with other men when it comes to sexual encounters.

My dear friends Latin Lover, who I will refer to as LL for short, spent almost two hours talking to E & I last night about some of the things men discuss. The primary focus of the conversation was the female anatomy, most specifically the vagina.

Men love discussing and describing everything from color and texture to taste and smell.

From everything I've ever heard or read, what a vagina looks like doesn't really matter - it is a vagina after all.

As for the taste and smell... This can be very important and in some cases detrimental to sexual activity.

When it comes to smell, men will do anything to subtly catch a whiff of how a woman smells below the belt. If it's good, there's not much more a guy will ask for but to go there. If it's not so good, well, your man may not be able to even get it up. Smell is such an important factor for men during sexual activity that anything that isn't quite normal will cause them to shut down.

According to MayoClinic.com, "The most common cause of vaginal odor is bacterial vaginosis, resulting from an overgrowth of organisms normally present in the vagina. The odor — usually a "fishy" smell — may be more obvious after sexual intercourse. Other signs and symptoms of bacterial vaginosis include vaginal itching or irritation, and a grayish-whitish vaginal discharge. Treatment of bacterial vaginosis may include antibiotics."

Don't be too worried - unless you have an infection or poor hygiene, the chances that you've got something 'fishy' going on is slim. If you notice anything irregular see your doctor - you'd hate to be one of the girls that end up as a man's story about how bad the smell was, wouldn't you?

As for the taste, I've never heard any complaints - although I have heard of it being equated to Parmesan CheezeIts.



Oh, and one fun fact - if you've ever noticed how twitchy men can be or how they can scratch their ears or head so rapidly, don't complain. It's all for a good reason - primarily practice in pleasuring you. :)




J.